Privacy
Where you'll be is sensitive. We treat it that way.
Not a wall of small print. Here is what ToGethered records, who can see it, and the things it will never do.
The short version
Four promises, in plain English.
Strangers never see who you are
A signed-out visitor sees that a place is alive — "four people, two swimming" — and nothing that identifies anybody. Not your name, not your face.
You pick the room
Your circle, the regulars at a spot, or the open door. A plan is not published to the world because you wrote it down.
We don't sell it, ever
Your plans are not a product. We do not sell your data, we do not post on your behalf, and there are no advertising signals on this site.
Delete it whenever
An intent can be edited or deleted at any time, by you. Changing your mind is expected behaviour, not an edge case.
A gathering nobody can find isn't a gathering. Being findable shouldn't mean being watched.
Which is why the two are separated.
What ToGethered records
The product answers one question — who else is going to be here? — so it has to know where you intend to be and roughly when, which spots you follow, and the activities and weekdays you want to hear about. That is the deal, and it is the whole of it.
Your account comes from Sneat Co., the same identity used across the ecosystem, so there is no separate ToGethered password to lose.
Who can see what
Spot pages are public, because a gathering nobody can find is not a gathering. Butpublic does not mean identifiable. A signed-out visitor gets coarse presence only: a headcount and the activities. Signing in reveals who is going — to people who are themselves accountable, rather than to anyone with the link.
That asymmetry is the point. It keeps the useful signal — this place is alive on Saturdays — while refusing to broadcast an identifiable person's location and schedule to strangers.
Co-presence, and its two hard limits
When two people are both likely to be at the same spot on the same day, within overlapping time windows, ToGethered records that they were probably in the same place. That is what lets the ecosystem stop asking you to re-type the same people into every app.
Two limits are deliberate, and they are not negotiable:
- Only high-confidence plans count. A maybe never creates a connection.
- A connection never adds you to anyone's group, space or membership. It records a relationship; it does not hand out access.
Notifications
You hear about spots and people you chose to follow, filtered to your activities and weekdays — and nothing else. Follow both a spot and someone who posts there, and you get one notification, not two. Unfollow anything, any time.
This website
We measure page views to learn what people find useful. Analytics storage is denied by default and is only enabled outside the EEA and UK; visitors in those regions are not measured without consent. No advertising signals, no cross-site personalisation.
Asking us things
ToGethered is operated by Sneat Co. For privacy questions, or to have your data removed, see sneat.co.
ToGethered is in active development. This page describes the model the product is being built to, in plain English; it will be joined by a full legal privacy notice before general availability. We would rather tell you the shape of it now than hand you a document nobody reads.